Infidelity is Domestic Violence
Jakarta | badilag.net
Infidelity could actually brings someone to the jail, since the affair is a pyschical domestic violence.
“The infidelity is also a domestic violence. It does not leave a physical effect, but has a remnant in the heart.” Indah Wilujeng said in the mediation workshop held by Badilag in cooperation with Indonesia-Australia Partnership for Justice and Family Court of Australia on Wednesday (03/21/2012).
Indah Wilujeng is the activist of Women Headed Household Empowerment (PEKKA). Although she would deliver about gender issues in the mediation, her explanation extended to some issues, included the infidelity.
Indah admitted that infidelity or domestic violence can be done by either men or women. But based on the data of PEKKA, most of the victims are women.
Hasnawaty Abdullah, a judge of Surabaya RC, has a different opinion. Based on her experiences handling the divorce cases, the women do the affair more.
Responding to the opinion, Indah did not want to blame the women. For her, the affair which is done by the women does not automatically mean that they are the domestic violence doer.
“The violence does not stand alone. It has relationship and cause-effect.” She said. .